The Stop People Pleasing Launchpad

In only 30 days, go from putting everyone else’s needs before your own to honouring your needs & standing up for yourself - without it being a struggle.

Doors are now closed for September's group

Shifting from yes wo/man to saying no with ease and grace
Knowing exactly what to say in difficult situations
Setting better boundaries without conflict
Throwing yourself out of your own pity parties and instead setting off on an adventure to start fully living at last?

1st - 30th September
Group Sessions 1st, 8th, 15th, 22nd, 29th

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What's In The Launchpad?

4 online modules, 5 group coaching sessions on Zoom PLUS two fantastic bonuses

Online Content
5 x Group Calls

Each is a 90 minute Zoom session. Max 10 participants.

Every Wednesday in September at 8pm UK time (3pm EST)

Module 1: Creating Mental Space

Neuroscience-based ways to reduce overwhelm and ease your hyperreactivity that go beyond cliches like just meditate. These empath-friendly strategies help you actively navigate a 21st century world that was not designed for you.

Module 2: Empath Confidence

This module will give you some liberating steps to develop rock-solid confidence as an empath and HSP. Get ready to own who you are in all of your imperfect glory!

Module 3: Change Your Story

Shift from struggle to adventure. It is time to put down that mental baggage about who you are. Instead, we will close that chapter and write a new one. You have been stuck in the rescuer-turned-victim identity for too long, and it is time to move on to start living your own hero/ine's journey. Every hero and heroine has doubts, but they use their journey to show themselves that acting in spite of self-doubt is the only way forward.

Module 4: Boundary Setting

Having laid the foundations with the other three modules, it is time to start creating healthier boundaries. You will learn how to deal with energy drainers and show up differently. Say no with ease and grace. 

The Resilience Toolkit is a mini video course that gives you a grounding in resilience from an empath's point of view. We are not going to resort to those well-worn and useless ideas like You've got to believe in yourself and persistence and determination count. I have a much more useful skill to teach you, and I promise it will be fun to develop!

Easy Boundary Setters is a PDF of 15 foolproof boundary-setting strategies that you can start using right now. These ideas work easily and subtly - often without anyone noticing!

What My Clients Say

I have been able to create a personal freedom I did not know existed. Thank you Harriet for helping me to create a life where I feel that I am in control and can still be who I am as an empath.

Trista Ainsworth

After working with Harriet, I can now make decisions for myself that give me what I need and fulfil my needs, and I don’t have to worry so much about upsetting or not pleasing other people.

Caito Stewart

After talking with Harriet over a difficult incident, I was able to use my words and say “It hurt me”. I then got an apology, &          was told how valuable I am to               my organisation.

Larissa Malcolm

 Finally There's An Answer!

So many people pleasers live their life defeated - overwhelmed by a world that expects them to be a square peg in a round hole. The only option seems to be 'just put up with it' - but I'm here to tell you that you don't have to tolerate such low standards. Your life is waiting; a life where you accept yourself and confidently own who you are, in all your imperfect perfection. Welcome to freedom!

Join from £245

The Stop People Pleasing Launchpad

How to stop wasting your energy living in reaction
 to things that are beneath you
Change how you show up with family and friends
How change the silent agreements you have with people, often without them even noticing! 
Transform how you see yourself in a month
Share your fears, gain inspiration from others' wins - and have your achievements recognised

My Personal Money Back Guarantee

Still unsure? Attend session #1, and see if this approach is right for you. If you are in any way unhappy, just contact me for a full refund.

Frequently Asked Questions

When are the group sessions?

Every Wednesday in September: 1st, 8th, 15th, 22nd and 29th. Each session lasts 90 minutes. Each one takes place at 8pm UK time (3pm EST) Check what time that is for you

Are the group sessions recorded?

Yes. They will go in an area within the course that is only available to participants. 

Are individual sessions recorded? 

If you like. It is completely up to you. 

Can you really stop me people pleasing in just a month?

My guess is that you have been people pleasing for years. Realistically you probably won’t change every unhealthy relationship in 30 days. The point is to provide you with a launchpad - the support, accountability, ideas and inspiration to start moving the goalposts in your favour for a change. It will show you what is possible - or rather allows you to. 

One of the reasons that I devote a whole module to changing your story is that if you can create a more positive and action-oriented narrative to your life, that is a skill you have for life.

My relationship with my mother/father/husband etc is difficult. Will I have the opportunity to be coached on this particular issue?

Because I am capping the group numbers at 10, everyone will have the chance to be coached on a specific relationship in their life - should they wish. If you want to go into greater depth than the time constraints of the group session allow, then it is a good idea to opt for the group plus one-to-one option. This gives you an extra 4 one hour individual coaching sessions. These can taken during and/or after the group programme ends.

What is the difference between the group coaching sessions and one-to-one?

In the group sessions we split the time between (1) discussing the course content and (2) talking about any issues that are arising for participants. I help them to prepare for boundary shifting conversations or coach them in the best way to show up differently in any particular situation. Everyone will get a chance to be coached individually each session.

In one-to-one sessions, the entire focus and what we talk about is exclusively on your needs. Another difference is that you can spread the individual sessions out beyond the month that the course lasts. You also get written session notes.

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